Whatever happens is for good

Shit...Crap...Fcku... What the Hell..Are the usual words that we generally use when something out of our control or will happens...

Elders keep telling that “ beta, whatever happens is for your good. Don’t feel bad about small things and blah blah blah.....

The fact is we feel like the world has ended. We cant breath, life is of no use and our life is totally F**Ked up. Getting depressed is the most common activity people do...but I ...huh.. i gave it a chance.

I think its time to reveal the originality.

YES, what elders say is correct. But i take it in a different way. When we cant help it , we should not be butting up in between. It does not mean we should leave trying; indeed we should try harder but by taking it in a positive manner. Chill yaar if things don’t turn to you, you turn towards them. My serious advice to all you guys reading this blog is just live life; it does give you a second chance.

I experienced this when i saw “death” right near to me. It was after 12^th, time for my competitive exams. As every usual student i too had latent hostility. Getting up in mornings, hectic study schedule, busy making notes late nights and all.

It was THE date now. 27^th February 2003. I woke up at around 6 am, revised a lil bit, had breakfast, touched my parents and nani’s feet and left for the exam on scooty.

God knows how, a kid jumped in front of my scooty and i pulled the breaks...this is all i remember about the incidence and when i came in conscious i was in hospital. Badly smashed by a car, right hand fractured and badly hit leg. It took me 1hour to even realise that i did not reach the center for exam.

I was such in a bad state of mind , could not even share it as everyone was already tensed. That time, my dad, came to me and said “its okay beta.... ek hi toh exam nahi di” i don’t know why, but those words became my strength.

Gradually i started to enjoy my bed rest, though had guilt of not appearing for the exam, but had mentally prepared to study harder for it. I will cherish this time spent with my family and friends through out my life.  They cared for me , helped me in each and every possible aspect.

Now, by this time, i was quite ok, started routine life, hanging with friends, but this time it was all new. A different experience.

Finally i gave the exam, got selected and now, i am a passed out, with a job in hand. But still i have experienced some of the best days of my life with the most lovable people around me.

I thank god for having done this accident and giving me a realisation about what i have.

I now believe that what ever happens is for good and nothing better then that can happen to you. Of course we loose something but what we get is much better then what we could...

life has different colours... to teach you