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Whatever happens is for good

Shit...Crap...Fcku... What the Hell..Are the usual words that we generally use when something out of our control or will happens...

Elders keep telling that “ beta, whatever happens is for your good. Don’t feel bad about small things and blah blah blah.....

The fact is we feel like the world has ended. We cant breath, life is of no use and our life is totally F**Ked up. Getting depressed is the most common activity people do...but I ...huh.. i gave it a chance.

I think its time to reveal the originality.

YES, what elders say is correct. But i take it in a different way. When we cant help it , we should not be butting up in between. It does not mean we should leave trying; indeed we should try harder but by taking it in a positive manner. Chill yaar if things don’t turn to you, you turn towards them. My serious advice to all you guys reading this blog is just live life; it does give you a second chance.

I experienced this when i saw “death” right near to me. It was after 12^th, time for my competitive exams. As every usual student i too had latent hostility. Getting up in mornings, hectic study schedule, busy making notes late nights and all.

It was THE date now. 27^th February 2003. I woke up at around 6 am, revised a lil bit, had breakfast, touched my parents and nani’s feet and left for the exam on scooty.

God knows how, a kid jumped in front of my scooty and i pulled the breaks...this is all i remember about the incidence and when i came in conscious i was in hospital. Badly smashed by a car, right hand fractured and badly hit leg. It took me 1hour to even realise that i did not reach the center for exam.

I was such in a bad state of mind , could not even share it as everyone was already tensed. That time, my dad, came to me and said “its okay beta.... ek hi toh exam nahi di” i don’t know why, but those words became my strength.

Gradually i started to enjoy my bed rest, though had guilt of not appearing for the exam, but had mentally prepared to study harder for it. I will cherish this time spent with my family and friends through out my life.  They cared for me , helped me in each and every possible aspect.

Now, by this time, i was quite ok, started routine life, hanging with friends, but this time it was all new. A different experience.

Finally i gave the exam, got selected and now, i am a passed out, with a job in hand. But still i have experienced some of the best days of my life with the most lovable people around me.

I thank god for having done this accident and giving me a realisation about what i have.

I now believe that what ever happens is for good and nothing better then that can happen to you. Of course we loose something but what we get is much better then what we could...

life has different colours... to teach you

                           

Best Days of my life

Today, in my busy workig schedule, when I have to wakeup to prepare tiffins for my children, get the home cleaning done before my husband wishes me bye and leaves for his office and later , fill in  my stuff in a purse and run to catch the 9.20 am bus for my office .As I was peeping out from the bus  I fell in a daydream and went to the most wonderful and unforgettable days of my life.

‘Good bye ‘is the hardest thing to say to the best days of your life, where you spend 15 lovely years.

Those days when my mumy use to wake me up,got me ready and dressed me in school uniform, daddy use to dop me to school and waved bbye till I went inside the gate, the sweet chit chat I used to have with my nappy friends. The days when I was learning to be mature, learning very important lessons of life , knowing the world which was new to me, the school days.

I miss all the hop, skip and jump that I used to do on the way to school, running in the corridors just after hearing the last strains of morning bells, playing in the large field of our school, scribbling last pages of note book with rubbish talks and hiding it from the teachers.

Soon I came to the young age , making new friends, having fun in lunch breaks, annoying our teachers but still having respect for them in heart, bunking classes and then escape from school, ordering pizza’s and samosa’s through our gatekeeper and bribing him 10 Rs to do so and  fighting on small stuffs.

Enjoy late night parties with friends and introducing our boyfriends to each other. I really miss the late night talks on conference call and hiding a few things from parents though they could snatch my liberty, studies which  just started 15 days before exams and then screaming like hell to complete our syllabus, praying to god about the results and  finally the happiness of passing, were some wonderful times that I can never forget.

The last day to school, our farewell, the most emotional time for all and the time to say GOOD BYE. Time to say good bye to the best days of my life, say good bye to my friends who were with me in the best and the toughest times of these years, to my teachers who thought us to be right from wrong , to carry on and be strong. We all made promises to stay in touch but a few kept them.

Today, when I see myself successful in all the roles of my life, then be it a wife, a mother, a daughter or a manager, I feel proud and enjoy each and every moment of life, but if I could rewind the time machine, yes I would make my school days, the golden period last forever.

Life is the best teacher

When you sit in a corner and think what life has taught me? The only answer you get is EVERYTHING. Life teaches you the meaning of Birth, relationships, love, hatred, friends, family and everything you can even imagine. While making a list, i realised evaluating our past is the best example to calculate what has life taught me.  I was born, i learned the most important relationship of my life, my mom and dad. Then i learned there are senses in my mind, i can speak, so i started to utter. Gradually i learned to scrawl, walk, eat, and understand. Then it was the time to learn to go to school. I did that and antiphonally liked that. Then i learned to make friends and made some best buddies for life.

During the whole journey, only one factor remained constant, which is learning. Even today, when i got married, i learned to stay away from my parents, adjusted in a new atmosphere, built new relations and now, when i feel life has no more twists , it is never so.

Having good and bad experiences is a part of life, but learning from them is living it.(life)

I love my life as it is, i enjoy it in any condition it keeps me because i know, “I” am the most important part of my life and it will never disappoint me.