Was it Love?

Have you ever been in love? What sort of love? Is it a lust, attraction, style, a tendency or ADDICTION?

I met a guy madly in love with don’t know what… 

No it was not lust, nor was it sex. It wasn’t a girl either. I asked myself what kind of life does he lead? No feelings, no care for anyone, just hatred in heart and a fear of not being hated. I mean what kind of theory is that!!! This man made me think of what must have happened, which lead him be like this.

I asked him about the problem and here is the reply:

“Addiction is a very negative word, why don’t we call it an obsession, a passion of becoming rich. I am a no-one now. But I will be someone someday. And yes, I am on the path. I have money, a sexy car. What else you need?  I am not in a relationship does not mean I don’t F**k. I don’t need a partner or a marriage… I will be the same as I was.”

I investigated about him and found out about a girl in his life he was damn serious for, but still kept double timing on and eventually started to feel guilty and not the suitable guy for her. This lead he staying away from the girl life-long and she eventually ended up with someone else.

This guy now feels unsecure about what would happen if the same girl hates him? In his heart may be that girl will be alive forever in the same effigy, but if she finds him out like this, her happiness would shatter. She would not believe on truth, on trust, on emotions, on love…. And if there is no LOVE , there would be disappointment, let-down and failure of a true love story.

Is this how a love story should end? I have read that true love stories don’t die; even if they are incomplete they make an epic. Is this a true love story? Was he really in love with her ever? May be yes or maybe no…

I wish this does not end the way it has…We all would miss this love story…

Every Action Has An Equal And Opposite Reaction

The third of Sir Issac Newton's laws of physics, and one that is very important to space flight. If you push anything it pushes back to you. Now why am I worrying about Sir Newton, is the way we react is only measured by the force of hitting of that incident.

Still complicated? I know. Life is so…L

We are used to a routine life, “IF” someone disturbs it, we tend to react. The reaction can be good, bad, or even surprising. One moment you make plans for something, the other moment you realize that all of them are screwed…off course you react, and the way of reacting is definitely not good…

Sometimes you get cute surprises; it may be from anyone husband, parents, friends or else, your routine changes but your reaction on that change of routine is great, now you are happy.

One thing never changes out of “routine” is just keep waiting about what can come up next…something that is fishy or something which makes your life full of amazement.

Wait & watch the force of event which further calculates your reacting senses.

Women Empowerment...

The Indian women during 17^th, 18^th and also 19^th century were treated merely as beautiful show pieces, they were not allowed to study, they were forced to marry at a very tender age of just 7 or 8 years, in the age of studying and playing with dolls they were driven towards kitchen and were involved in the house keeping activities.

Now the scene has changed...they are not only enjoying the fruit of globalised marking but also they influence the domestic and international spheres. They have developed a space for themselves in this male dominated world. Indian women manage both burden of work in the household front and meeting the deadlines at the work place.

We can mark women empowerment by a few names like Smt Pratibha Patil our 1^st lady President, Valentina Tereshkova – 1^st women astronaut, Shahnaz Hussain – the mother of all herbal cosmetics in world,  Kiren Bedi and many more in this queue. These ladies have marked their achievement and so we can say that women have proved themselves in every field by their ability to learn quickly from their abilities, persuasiveness, and open style of problem solving, willingness to take risks and chances, ability to motivate people, knowing how to win and lose gracefully.

Today’s women are powerful enough and well deserved as well to get featured in articles of magazines and newspapers , to be talked about on TV channels and espoused for so. 

Developing Hobbies Can Bring A Change In You

A hobby can take you out of your life for a while. It can be relaxing, invigorating, educational, fun, or maybe, if you are lucky, a little of everything. Hobbies are more than just ways to creatively pass the time as your mood.

There are some people who like to dance, some like to swim, some go for playing out door games and some like to party. Your hobby can be anything, and I am sure everyone out here has some or the other hobby.

They are also good for your health. Hobbies and other leisure activities can have many health benefits. We know that stress can and will at some point in your life, take a heavy toll on our mind and body. A hobby can prevent the harmful effects of stress and also make our life richer and more rewarding.

One of the main purposes of getting into activities outside your daily routine is to relax( which is utmost important). Hobbies help break your monotonous life. Being able to escape from your small world can lead to better results or greater productivity when you get back to work.

I consider it the best way to connect with you inner self. It is the private time which you have with yourself. When you have a hobby, you will strive to create time for yourself and manage your schedule well to keep that appointment with yourself.

So try to give some time for your self and make your mind fresh so that you can work even hard to achieve your dreams.

How my Parents Met (Part 1)

It was in the month of December when a couple decided to tie a knot, wedding of Abha and Vinod. My dad’s best friend Vinod uncle and Abha aunty, who was daughter of my nanaji’s family friend, so by default my mom and dad had to attend the wedding.

My dad reached a bit late so he missed the initial ceremonies and could not see the bride or his bhabhi...Dad asked Vinod uncle- “ Yaar bhabhi kaha hain, milva toh.” He replied, “Ja upar room me jo sabse sunder ladki taiyaar ho rahi hai, wo teri bhabhi hai”… Dad went up and to the most beautiful lady (according to him) in the room said “ namastey bhabhi ji, I am Vinod’s friend. Good to see you, and then wished bye. 

 The wedding ceremony began with a twist when dad saw someone else with uncle, the lady whom dad met was not the bride. Then who was she? She was my mom. Dad fell for her and decided to get married with the most beautiful lady he found in the room ( which she is indeed)

Now the most difficult task was how to convey this to mom. He started to plan tricks to turn things in his favor. He made friends with my mama and masi’s husband (we call him kaka) and I must say -using all brains and efforts he left no stone unturned and succeeded in making an impression on them, finally the day arrived when they decided to meet at chappan( all Indorians know it).

(Keep waiting till the next blog comes, to find what happens next…)

How Google has changed the “ Face of Knowledge”

Invention of Google has revolutionized accessing information across all the fields universally. It answers any question in seconds. With use of any device which can run browser and connect to internet you get access to unlimited and ranked information from all over the world. Google, a multitudinous search engine was founded by two Stanford students Larry Page and Sergey Brin in the year 1996. The project was highly appreciated and with an intention "to organize the world's information and make it universally accessible and useful". Google also provides searching for videos, images, places, books, blogs, maps and much more.

It not only allows you to find any information in the world posted on internet but also ranks it according to content quality, popularity of website, keywords and your preferences. Google searches for information through its crawlers and orders it for you.

A decade before, we had to go through the libraries, newspapers and seek experts advise just to find answer to a particular question, but now if we search a question on Google we get almost millions of answers in a fraction of second. Finding information and gaining knowledge was never this easy before. Any thins you want to know is just a click away now.

Finding useful and relevant information within no time is nothing but miracle. Now a days Googling is common in housewives for recipes, students for assignments, businessmen for stocks and news, scientists for research papers, photographers for photos, software engineers for code, travelers for maps and a lot more. Google has incorporated each and every possible knowledge or information that one could need right from morning to dawn.

Google has become the best knowledge sharing platform with millions of users worldwide and sharing our wisdom, views, interests through blogs, videos, snaps , catalogues, social networking , books we can surely say that the face of knowledge is now very much recognizable as Google. Google has incorporated each and every possible knowledge or information that one could need right from morning to dawn.

I met Madhuri...A Day Dream

It was 9:00 am and I was getting late for my 9:20 bus. In a rush I kept my scattered folders, bottle, wallet and Tiffin in my purse (rather I can call it a mini handbag) and rushed to the bus stop.  It was a rainy day still I wore a white off shoulder top because it was my favorite and lucky one. I was desperate for luck because it was an important interview and in no case I wanted to miss the opportunity.

Somehow I managed to catch the bus and clutched a window seat. 5 minutes later the bus stopped and something that I could have never even imagined happened…

Out of the blues Madhuri Dixit stepped in the bus!!!

I was amazed and still couldn’t believe what I saw…and then my luck shined to its limit. She sat on the seat next to me, can anyone on this earth tell me what was happening.

She was shooting for some detergent Advertisement and randomly selecting people to talk with. For about 5 minutes she talked to me asking which detergent do you use, would you like to take up XXXX challenge and etc etc etc…all I could listen and see was her ravishing beauty and assumes voice. I was totally lost in THE MADHURI DIXIT. It felt out of the world and an experience like never before, an experience which a few % of crowd can feel and live. I was feeling so lucky at my heart.

As I forwarded my diary and a pen towards her, the bus jumped in a mud puddle and I WOKE UP…

Yes, this was a dream. After waking up, for at least 10 minutes I could not realize that I was in a sleep and this has not happened to me. I had not met Madhuri and now it was time to come back to reality- “the routine life”.

This was one moment that I will never forget in life, though I have not actually met her, but I can say -have experienced meeting Madhuri.